love-a wonderful experience

            LoVE-A beautiful experience 

LOVE - The most wonderful feeling of the world, a feeling when everything appears so beautiful. A feeling which cannot be expressed by words, a feeling in which a person can go beyond his limits. A feeling in which even little eye-contacts with your crush appears endless. A feeling in which even a simple ‘hello’ from your crush takes you to your ‘9^th cloud.’ But loving someone doesn’t mean that you’ll love him/her for your own sake. Loving someone means caring for them, loving them for no reason. As they say it,” if you can define why do you love someone, then you probably don’t love them because love is something which has got no reason to happen.” When you love someone, don’t love them for their looks instead love them for who they are. Well, there is not only that single love which we see in movies but apart from that love is a language of sympathy, care, authenticity, sacrifices and a lot more. If someone loves you love them back in whatever way you can. Love them by showing concern for them or by just asking how they are, or being with them in their rough times. When u are committed to someone don’t try to change them love them  as the way they are. Before changing someone else, try to change yourself because if u are not able to change yourself then how can you expect someone to change for you? Remember that you are not having the copyright on that person. Another thing, when we love someone we try to hide the shortcomings of that person but instead we should be a perfect reflector of their shortcomings not to outshine them but to make them a better person.

While children of my age are getting into relationships, here I m busy writing this article, while talking about love, teenage love is something inevitable. We all have a crush on someone in our ‘teens’ whether it’s a teacher, senior or someone else. Sooner or later, huge or small, we all have it. While in today’s world a little attraction on someone of opp. Sex is termed as ‘true love,’ as a result fake relationships are common. The teenagers are undergoing a lot of stress because of fake relationships, breakups etc. All I can say to them is that there is no need of being depressed for such a small thing. I know it’s a big thing for you but dear, there is a lot to come in. The destiny has planned something huge for us.  We never know what we’ll end up as? It’s just a small thing! Believe in the almighty. Whatever happens, happens for a good cause, suicides and depression is not a solution for it. Every person in our life come for a reason, whether it’s our siblings, cousins, friends, a lover or a complete stranger. Maybe the person you broke up with came there to make u bold! Bold enough to handle such situations more positively in future. Who knows? Learn from your mistakes. Don’t  open your heart to everyone. There is no need to share your feelings with everyone because people will be good in front of you and will laugh on your feelings behind your back. Decide whom to share your feelings with.

There was a post on my instagram acc. Last day and it said:

“Why all 13,14,14,16 and even 17 worrying about love, getting depressed over it, and making it seem like u can’t live without someone else’s love, but you can. You have rest of your life to worry about finding the right one. Stop stressing it so much at young age. It will depress you, ruin your youth, change on your whole mindset. Focus on other things.”

Yes, my dear friends stop worrying about all this. If u proposed someone and u get a no as answer then there is no need of being depressed or cut off your wrist. It’s just a small no. Be positive, be calm, be cool, enjoy your life and stay stress free.