love-a wonderful experience

            LoVE-A beautiful experience 

LOVE - The most wonderful feeling of the world, a feeling when everything appears so beautiful. A feeling which cannot be expressed by words, a feeling in which a person can go beyond his limits. A feeling in which even little eye-contacts with your crush appears endless. A feeling in which even a simple ‘hello’ from your crush takes you to your ‘9^th cloud.’ But loving someone doesn’t mean that you’ll love him/her for your own sake. Loving someone means caring for them, loving them for no reason. As they say it,” if you can define why do you love someone, then you probably don’t love them because love is something which has got no reason to happen.” When you love someone, don’t love them for their looks instead love them for who they are. Well, there is not only that single love which we see in movies but apart from that love is a language of sympathy, care, authenticity, sacrifices and a lot more. If someone loves you love them back in whatever way you can. Love them by showing concern for them or by just asking how they are, or being with them in their rough times. When u are committed to someone don’t try to change them love them  as the way they are. Before changing someone else, try to change yourself because if u are not able to change yourself then how can you expect someone to change for you? Remember that you are not having the copyright on that person. Another thing, when we love someone we try to hide the shortcomings of that person but instead we should be a perfect reflector of their shortcomings not to outshine them but to make them a better person.

While children of my age are getting into relationships, here I m busy writing this article, while talking about love, teenage love is something inevitable. We all have a crush on someone in our ‘teens’ whether it’s a teacher, senior or someone else. Sooner or later, huge or small, we all have it. While in today’s world a little attraction on someone of opp. Sex is termed as ‘true love,’ as a result fake relationships are common. The teenagers are undergoing a lot of stress because of fake relationships, breakups etc. All I can say to them is that there is no need of being depressed for such a small thing. I know it’s a big thing for you but dear, there is a lot to come in. The destiny has planned something huge for us.  We never know what we’ll end up as? It’s just a small thing! Believe in the almighty. Whatever happens, happens for a good cause, suicides and depression is not a solution for it. Every person in our life come for a reason, whether it’s our siblings, cousins, friends, a lover or a complete stranger. Maybe the person you broke up with came there to make u bold! Bold enough to handle such situations more positively in future. Who knows? Learn from your mistakes. Don’t  open your heart to everyone. There is no need to share your feelings with everyone because people will be good in front of you and will laugh on your feelings behind your back. Decide whom to share your feelings with.

There was a post on my instagram acc. Last day and it said:

“Why all 13,14,14,16 and even 17 worrying about love, getting depressed over it, and making it seem like u can’t live without someone else’s love, but you can. You have rest of your life to worry about finding the right one. Stop stressing it so much at young age. It will depress you, ruin your youth, change on your whole mindset. Focus on other things.”

Yes, my dear friends stop worrying about all this. If u proposed someone and u get a no as answer then there is no need of being depressed or cut off your wrist. It’s just a small no. Be positive, be calm, be cool, enjoy your life and stay stress free.

education policy of india

Education policy of India

I asked someone, “What do you think about the education policy of India?” The person replied, “Its rubbish!!” I was shocked by this answer though I expected a negative answer but not this. Further I asked why he thinks so. The answer he gave me compelled me to think over this topic again.

Education plays a vital role in the development of a nation. Education is a major aspect of a person’s life. It improves the quality of a nation’s citizens. But what if the education policy of a nation itself is poor? Obviously, the nation will never move on. In a developing country like India, the education policy should also develop. To do so the following points can be taken into consideration –

1)    All changes should be first implemented in the lower stature- according to this whatever changes the board wants to make should be first implemented on lower classes and if it is successful there then it should be implemented on the rest.

2)    Detention should be done-as per the latest CBSE guidelines no student can be declared fail up to class 10^th. This policy should be changed because under this policy the student is not at all benefited. It’s okay to take re-test if a student is fail in any of the subjects but if he is fail in the re-test also then teachers should have a right to declare that student fail and not to promote him in the next class. So Strict rules should be made which should be child friendly but only to a certain level.

3)    CHANGES IN THE CCE(Continuous And Comprehensive Evaluation) PATTERN- among the 4 formative assessments (FA) only 2 should be there comprising of three tools each. Right now we have 4 FAs of 3 tools (task) each which means 12 tools in a year and in most of these tools we have got our project work. The whole year we are busy making files, projects etc. and do not get sufficient time for our studies. Some believe that its due to these projects that you develop team building, collaborative spirit that you cannot by studying books and yes it’s true, there are many things which we learn from these projects which we can never learn by studying books and so I m not saying that these projects should banned or something I m just saying that the no. of these projects should decrease. So according to me there should be only 2 FAs comprising of three tools each and among these 3 tools one should be a pen-paper test and the other 2 can be project work, group activities etc. This way we can complete our projects also and can find time for our studies also.

Moreover, the students should get more practical knowledge. More workshops should be organized because even after spending so many years in schools still the students come up with a very little practical knowledge of work. Now you people must be thinking that this article is pointless. On one hand I m saying that project burden should decrease and on the other hand I m saying that more workshops should be organized. See these workshops should be organized in our summer vacations when more or less all of us are having time to attend these workshops. Yes, projects too add more practical value but these workshops will be a better option. Like for eg. In China, students are skilled in making various gadgets, robots etc. such skills should be practiced in India also these things will help us to enhance our technology and students from a younger age will know how to work.

But, “Rome was not built in a day so is the education policy of India. Gradually the education policy has improved and will keep improving unless and until the govt. is open to adopt a change.” A newspaper report clearly shows the achievements of the Delhi government in the year 2015-16. This report says that in every government school in Delhi surprise inspections were made by the Edu. Minister, the teachers who were not working properly were suspended, principal’s powers were expanded and many more. Increasing fees of the private schools has also not been neglected.  It’s a great effort made by the Delhi government and should be appreciated. Moreover the students got proper healthcare, sanitation and drinking facilities. Just like the Delhi government every state government should take steps towards the learning eco system of their state because then only our dream of an ‘EDUCATED INDIA’ can be fulfilled.

Reservations in India

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Today everyone is running behind reservations. Everyone is busy proving their community the backward one.The people who are already reserved wants more reservation.Even self-sufficient people are also demanding reservations. Actually today people have forgotten what reservations actually mean and why reservations were granted. The framers of our constitution believed that in India,certain communities are not socially and economically stable and are not given equal importance in the society.These communities were provided with a certain no. of reserved seats in the parliament and other govt. offices.This ideology was adopted for a good cause but now many reservations are going to those who don't deserve it.Like, if a person is earning Rs.10,00,000 per year which is somewhat to rs.83,000 per month and belongs to scheduled caste will be privileged for jobs,admissions etc.Now will you please tell me from where this person is socially or economically backward? I read a lot of stories on social media in which people were demanding reservations on the basis of one's financial status instead of one's caste or community and I totally agree with them.Reservations should be granted only to those who don't have proper sources to study,to earn money.Moreover, I think that reservations should be granted only for school education.In this,the students who belong to families who are below poverty line or are not so self-sufficient should be granted with free school education.These schools should be properly maintained and should have good faculty.Another thing,reservations should have nothing to do with admissions in  govt. colleges and recruitment for govt. jobs.A student from a middle class family coming from general category and a student from any of a backward class but belongs to a rich family wants admission in a particular govt. college.They both have same marks.But in this case the student belonging to the backward class would be privileged.Now can u tell me which one of them is really backward? So, therefore the reservations should have nothing to do with the admissions in govt. colleges.